if I hate my period
if I use the word slut
if I want to get hit during sex
if I think I should shave my pits and legs and cunt
if I like one night stands
if I’d like to put them on film
if I go to Take Back the Night just to see the girl I want to fuck
if I love a man
if I love a man who hates
if I want to cry to get what I want
if I’ve cheated
if I’ve cheated with a man
if I liked it
if I don’t think it counts when it's with a woman
if I’m like Emily Dickinson
if I wanna be Anne Sexton
if I think euphoria periods are conspiracy
if I cringe at orgasming during birth
if I want to sell my underwear on ebay
if I think adoption is the new home-birth
if I want to learn to cook a man his dinner
if I’m okay with some of the cat-calls
if I don’t want to be mysterious
if I want to be worshipped like a Manic Pixie Dream Girl
if I don’t laugh at a cheater’s dick getting chopped off
if I don’t know enough about female circumcision
if I want to know what it feels like to have lotus feet
if I don’t think the media is responsible for my low self-esteem
if I think I’m just a person, not a woman
if I don’t want it all, I just want enough.